ON GETTING MARRIED AND PATCHWORK FAMILY. PRACTICAL POLISH WORDS AND EXPRESSIONS

VERBS THAT COLLOCATE WITH THE NOUN ŚLUB 
Autumn may not be the most popular time of the year to plan a ślub (wedding), but this topic arouses interest in Polish classes regardless of the season. Let us remind you that in Polish you can brać ślub, i.e. get married (brać/wziąć ślub: check here to find out how to conjugate this verb). When we are talking about this occasion from the perspective of a woman, we say that she wychodzi/wyszła za mąż (wychodzić/wyjść za mąż, which can be understood as „she is getting/got a husband“), and when it’s from the perspective of a man, we say that he żeni się or ożenił się (żenić/ożenić się, which means that he is getting/got a wife)

Oto Mateusz i Klara. Oni wzięli ślub. Mateusz ożenił się z Klarą. Klara wyszła za Mateusza.
Literally: These are Mateusz and Klra. They got married. Mateusz took Klara as his wife. Klara took Mateusz as her husband.

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Another verb you can use in this situation is pobrać się, so:

Mateusz i Klara pobrali się w ostatnią sobotę. (Mateusz and Klara got married last Saturday)

PATCHWORK FAMILY. SOME FAMILY MEMBERS IN POLISH
When two people legalize their relationship outside of Poland and it is not marriage, we say that they zawarli związek partnerski albo weszli w związek partnerski (zawrzeć/ wejść w związek partnerski, i.e. enter/entered into a registered partnership).
As the result of a marriage in Poland people become mąż and żona (husband and wife). Frequently it is their next marriage and then this kind of couple together with the children from their previous relationships become a patchwork family (rodzina patchworkowa). The adults are then not only matka and ojciec (mother and father) for their own children but also become ojczym and macocha (stepfather and stepmother) for their spouse’s children. The word macocha has evolved over the years in the Polish language, since not so long ago it had ominous overtones. For the first time a child encountered this word while reading the Cinderella story. As we all remember, it wasn’t a positive connotation… Additionally, the negative overtone was emphasised by an expression traktować coś/ kogoś po macoszemu, i.e. treat something/someone unfairly, badly, harshly. Fortunately, along with the social changes in Poland the negative meaning of the word is gradually disappearing.

Soon you will be able to read more about Polish vocabulary referring to marital status.

AUTUMN VOCABULARY DILEMAS IN POLISH

NAMES OF FRUIT DELICACIES IN POLISH

Beautiful Polish golden autumn (Indian summer) has started (check here to find out where this name came from) and trees change their colour from green into yellow, red and brown. This is a perfect time for walks or for courses of Polish as a foreign language (alright, there always a good time to learn Polish;-)). And of ocurse, it’s time to make some preserved fruit products (przetwory) , such as dżemy (jams), konfitury (preserves), powidła (plum jam)... And now! Here’s the question: What is the difference between dżem and konfitura? Are these words synonyms, or do they describe completely different sweet products made from fruit?

IN FACT THEY’RE NOT THE SAME

They are definitely not synonyms, and the multitude of names in Polish comes from the difference in their taste and ... the preparation process.
Dżem is the most popular of them, of course. You can find it on a shelf in every shop in Poland, different kinds. It’s made from fruit or its parts. It’s enough to add lots of sugar to it, preferrably the so-called ‘gelling sugar’, and boil it for a long time, stirring from time to time.
Marmolada is the easiest to make (in Polish marmolada – marmalade – is a product made from any kind of fruit, not only citrus fruit). Just add equal amount of sugar to the fruit (50% to 50%), grate it, boil it and then leave it to cool. You can spread it on a slice of bread and eat right away.
If you are a gourmet, however, and love the taste of fruit without any thickeners, you should go for konfitura. You need to select fruit to make it. Only the one that looks best and tasty will be used and added to the sugar syrup prepared beforehand. Konfitury (preserves) require more effort and attention, since you should try not to damage the fruit while stirring and need to keep an eye on the temperature as it should be neither too high nor too low. At the end of the process it’s a good idea to coat the edges of the jars with cognac :) .

No matter which you prefer, dżem or konfitura,
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POLISH DELICACY

Powidła (plum jam) is a real Rolls-Royce among the Polish preserved fruit products. This is a Polish speciality and it is made only from plums (the węgierka variety is the best choice, Eng. common plum). Adding sugar is not necessary. However, you need time, since it takes several days for powidła to be ready. After that we can enjoy the taste of pure fruit during winter evenings.
Now that you know all these words and the differences between them you can get down to work, or simply go to the shop and simply pick a jar with an appropriate name on it. Enjoy!

NAMES OF MEALS IN POLISH

Nothing reflects the changes that have occurred in the Polish reality in the past 25 years better than the names of meals and the way we use them these days.

O KTÓREJ JECIE OBIAD? TRADITIONAL RHYTHM OF HAVING MEALS IN POLAND
This question comes up surprisingly often in Polish classes. The answer is not that obvious since it largely depends on our lifestyle and where we live. Traditionally Poles start their day with śniadanie (breakfast), around 10.30am they have their drugie śniadanie (second breakfast), which is usually a sandwich. Then comes obiad (lunch/dinner) eaten between 2 and 3pm (main meal of the day, usually consisting of two courses), children sometimes have podwieczorek (equivalent of tea) around 5pm, and that is a sweet snack before the last meal of the day, i.e. kolacja (dinner/supper) which is eaten around 7pm. Kolacja usually consists of one course and is definitely lighter than obiad and, depending on the season of the year, may be served cold or hot. The most important śniadanie (breakfast) of the year is, of course, the Easter breakfast (more information here), and the most formal kolacja (dinner/supper) is Wigilia, i.e. Christmas Eve dinner/supper (more on that here).
The model śniadanie - drugie śniadanie - obiad - (podwieczorek) – kolacja is a traditional one and is still followed by children, young people, unemployed adults and those living in small towns.

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ANGLICISMS IN NAMES OF MEALS
People living in large cities, studying or working from 9am to 5pm have obiad after work, and in the middle of the day they have ... lunch. The rhythm of meals and their times are similar to those in other countries. Śniadanie in the morning, lunch at midday and obiad early in the evening. With such a daily routine the noun kolacja is reserved for special occasions (kolacja służbowa - business dinner, kolacja romantyczna - romantic dinner) or refers to a meal eaten around 9pm (which is much less common in Poland than in southern countries). On days off, weekends, Polish middle class in larger cities has brunch, which is a late śniadanie or early lunch, usually eaten in restaurants or bistros (more on eating places here).

                      jem śniadanie, obiad, kolację. Check here the conjugation of the verb JEŚĆ (to eat)

Interestingly, even the Poles living in large cities give up on the Western European tradition in order to meet relatives for dinner on Sunday at 2pm (during which rosół, i.e. traditional chicken soup, is served) or to eat out together. Do you know now why restaurants in Poland are crowded on Sunday afternoons?

COMMUNICATION CONFUSION WITH KOMUNIKACJA

KOMUNIKACJA IN POLISH MEANS...

Today we’ll be talking about komunikacja, since this little word may easily confuse foreigners learning Polish.
Everything is fine as long as we are talking about komunikacja meaning the process of communicating, exchanging information or ideas. In this case the meaning of the word is crystal clear and even a beginner student of Polish does not see any difficulty or a catch here.

KOMUNIKACJA MEANING COMMUNICATION

There is komunikacja telefoniczna (telephone communication), mailowa (email) or internetowa (Internet), and listowna (through letters), which used to be popular in the past. We use  the word komunikacja with an adjective describing the means that enable information sharing and exchanging ideas. We can also use the preposition przez (through, by, over) and then we say kominukacja przez telefon, komunikatory, media społecznościowe (social media) or Internet. Remember that przez is followed by a noun in the accusative form.

WHAT LINKS KOMUNIKACJA AND TRANSPORT

However, the second meaning of the word causes surprise. Komunikacja in Polish also means movement consisting in maintaining the connection between two spots located within some distance from each other by various means of transport. There is komunikacja miejska (city/public transport), i.e. buses, trams, underground etc., podmiejska (suburban), connecting a city with its suburbs, międzymiastowa (intercity, literally: between cities) or międzynarodowa (international; from one country to another).  Therefore, a person who says they enjoy using komunikacja miejska on the way to work or their language course does not want to inform us about the ways of communicating with co-workers or classmates but to tell us that they get around by bus, tram or underground (Polish: jeździć autobusem, tramwajem, metrem; check here for conjugation of the verb jeździć).
And stała komunikacja między Warszawą a Poznaniem (regular connection between Warsaw and Poznań) means regular trains, for exmple, between these cities.
As you can see, good kominikacja always makes life easier.

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BAR, KAWIARNIA, RESTAURACJA or where you can have something to eat in Poland?

It is hard to believe that these three words: restauracja, bar and kawiarnia, raise so many questions in Polish classes. Naturally, everyone knows those are the names of eating establishments so the questions don’t usually refer to their meaning but the cultural context. They often happen to have somewhat different functions in Poland and abroad.

KAWIARNIA AND RESTAURACJA IN POLISH
Today we’re going to talk about the eating establishments you pass in the streets of Polish cities every day. We have already discussed the less common ones (oberża, karczma, zajazd) here. What are restauracja and kawiarnia then? The former is the least controversial and, the same as in other countries, restauracja (restarant) is a place where the food is served by a waiter or waitress. We go there if we want to eat (zjeść) a large meal (usually consisting of a starter, entree and main course) followed by coffee or tea, which Poles often drink while eating some dessert.
Coffee, tea and dessert can also be ordered in kawiarnie (cafes) which more and more often do not employ waiters and drinks and desserts are ordered and paid for at the counter. If such an establishment serves also sandwiches, quiches, salads or any other food typically served for luch, it is called a bistro. In large Polish cities there are plenty of establishments that are a combination of kawiarnia and bistro.

IS MILK DRUNK IN POLISH BARS?
What is the real meaning of the noun bar in the Polish language? Bar in Polish is a place where you can drink some alcohol but (unlike bars in Spain, for instance) where you don’t eat anything. The other meaning of the word, which is the source of  misunderstandings, is an estanblishment that was especially popular in the interwar Poland and PRL (Polska Rzeczpospolita Ludowa, i.e. Polish People’s Republic) and where these days as well you can have some simple and inexpensive Polish dishes. There’s no waiter service in a bar like that and the interior resembles a canteen rather than a restaurant. The full name of such an establishment, and we can call it Polish specialite de la maison, is a bar mleczny (literally: milk bar). Where does the name come from? Well, in the past many dishes served in such places were made with milk, cottage cheese and eggs. Nowadays bary mleczne are still quite popular and they can be called a sociological phenomenon since their customers come from various social groups. A visit to a bar mleczny has become a must-do for foreigners visiting Poland.

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ON PLAŻOWICZE (beachgoers), KOCE (blankets) AND PIASEK (sand), or Polish on the beach

Summer is a perfect time to learn a foreign language (e.g. Polish in one of our courses, information on which you can find here), but the truth is there’s no holiday without plaża (beach) and kąpiel (swim; bath) in the sea or lake.
Actually, plaża is also a perfect place to… learn some new vocabulary. If you are planning plażowanie (beaching), which means spending time on the beach at the Polish seaside or one of the beautiful Polish lakes, you must definitely get the equipment every plażowicz (beachgoer) needs.

Polish words which you need on the beach :)

POLISH BEACH GLOSSARY

The Baltic seaside, whether we like it or not, is often windy even on a sunny day, therefore it’s a good idea to get a parawan (beach windbreak), which will protect you against unwanted gusts of wind that might prevent you from enjoying the sun. The act of „enjoying the sun” is called kąpiele słoneczne (literally: sun baths) or you can say that someone opala się (is sunbathing).
If you need protection against the wind or rain which may unexpectedly start even in the summer and take the beachgoers by surprise, you can take shelter in a special kosz (basket), which you rent on the beach since it’s rather large and heavy
While sunbathing you should protect yourself from direct sunlight and then a parasol plażowy (parasol) might come in handy, which will give us some relieving cień (shade).
It is difficult, however, to lie (leżeć) on the sun-heated piasek (sand). It is much better and more comfortable to lie on a koc plażowy (beach blanket), mata (mat) or leżak (sunlounger). And when you get bored with sunbathing it’s a good idea to go for a swim (here’s when we have discussed swimming in and on the sea), build a zamek z piasku (sand castle) for which you need łopatka (shovel) and wiaderko (bucket), zbierać muszelki (collect seashells), karmić mewy (feed the seagulls) or to go for a spacer wzdłuż brzegu (walk along the shore).
And you can always speak Polish
Miłego wypoczynku! (Have a nice holiday!)

By the Polish seaside you can not only lie on the beach, you can also look for seashells.

DZIAŁKA (allotment) and DACZA (dacha), or where else do Poles spend their holiday?

That’s right, we have already discussed the topic of where to spend a holiday in Poland on several occasions. In Warmia and Masuria, in the Bieszczady Mountains  or in the north of Poland . It’s hard to believe, though, that we have overlooked one important aspect, one really important Polish word known very well by virtually all participants of our summer Polish courses.

DZIAŁKA. WHAT IS IT AND HOW IMPORTANT IS IT IN POLISH LIFESTYLE?
Działka is not only a piece of land with a summer, holiday house located ouside of town, somewhere in the country and the further from civilisation the better. It is also a specific style of life and spending leisure time of people who normally live in blocks of flats. When asked what they do at the weekend or on holiday the Poles often answer Jadę na działkę/ Spędzam weekend na działce/ Dostałem zaproszenie do znajomych na działkę (I’m going to the allotment/I’m spending the weekend on the allotment/I’ve been invited to my friends‘ allotment). What's funny, foreigners who have a Polish family or friends, often, even speaking in their own language, do not translate the word and use the Polish form (I'm going to działka). On the plot/allotment, in addition to a small garden (ogród) or orchard (sad) - more on these words here - first of all there is a dom letniskowy (summer/holiday house), which is usually very simple, made of wood and without any luxuries (although there are exceptions).

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WHAT DO POLES DO ON A DZIAŁKA? SOME POLISH VERBS
Poles are very happy to invite friends to działka to have a barbecue together (grillować/robić grilla – to barbecue/have a barbecue), swim (pływać), read books (czytać książki) in a deckchair or hammock, make food together, go mushroom and blueberry picking (chodzić na grzyby i jagody) to a nearby forest, do crosswords (rozwiązywać krzyżówki), play scrabble, cards or chess (grać w scrabble, karty lub szachy). And simply to rest in the bossom of nature (odpoczywać na łonie natury).

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Those who don’t leave the city associate działka with a plot where a new building may be constructed (that is another meaning of the word, known to foreigners working for property development companies) or with ... ogródki działkowe (allotment gardens). The latter is a characteristic feature of landscape of many Polish cities. On such a działka in the middle of the city people grow vegetables, fruit or flowers. This is a favourite pastime among pensioners, but not only... Recently more and more young people are starting to appear in allotment gardens.

DACZA AND DZIAŁKA. POLISH IRONY.
The word dacza (dacha) was borrowed from Russian and means the same as a ... działka. This word used to be more popular before the political transformation. These days it’s rather archaic and Poles use it in an ironic or humorous way especially when referring to a very well-equipped summer house (O, masz daczę za miastem?! – oh, you have a dacha outside the city? ; Ale dacza! – what a dacha! ; Dobra, przyjedziemy do ciebie na daczę – all right, we’ll come to your dacha).

At the end we have some advice for all learners of Polish. If you are ever invited to a działka by a Pole, do not decline. Działka experience is an essential element of socialising in Poland. Have fun!